CONTRASTING THE ESTATE AND FINANCIAL PLANNING PRIORITIES TO INDIVIDUALS IN THE 30-50 YEAR OLD GROUP VS 62 AND OLDER GROUP.
Dale Tamburro • October 10, 2025

FOR SINGLE OR MARRIED PEOPLE WITHOUT CHILDREN

·     Basic Understanding of Finances, Paying Bills, rearranging debt, attention to credit, start saving money, school loans

·     How to buy your first home; How to come up with the down payment

·     Under about 401K/IRA vs Roths; start small but start

·     When to buy life insurance and what kind

·     Explain the need for a Health Care Proxy and HIPAA authorization; Discount need of a Will unless married

·     How is the couple sharing financial responsibilities; individual accounts and joint accounts; buying a home with a non-50/50 contribution

·     Understand Home Care, Home/Car insurance; Homestead; How to take Title (default of Tenants in Common)

 

FOR MARRIED COUPLES STARTING OR ALREADY STARTED A FAMILY

·     You need a Will because of the Guardianship Clause; Guardian of the Person vs Guardian of the Property. Perhaps time for your first Power of Attorney but definitely Will and Health Care Proxy

·     Life Insurance for Peace of Mind (enough money to get the kids through to adulthood); How much insurance; Term or Whole Life or Both

·     The Values of a Standby Trust for your children or a combination of your spouse and children

·     Financial Buckets; short term; long term longer term

·     Tax Planning; Investments beyond IRAs; should you diversion between pre-tax money and post-tax investments; Balance; Time for a financial advisors that emphasizes investment and growth in contrast to life insurance and such products

·     Pay attention to your parents; their estate planning; what are your expectations

·     529 Plans or similar programs

·     What happens to your estate plan when you have more children?

·     Maintain your Estate Plan by periodic reviews with estate planner; If nothing changes, 5 years and as you get over shorter periods;

·     Review your Estate Plan when changes occur:

o  More children

o  Parent’s Disability or Death

o  Selling and Buying a new home or investment property;

o  Significant increase in Income or Net Worth

o  Eventually College planning for children

o  Look at your Fiduciaries; are they still appropriate

·     Is there a compelling need to coordinate Your Planning with Planning of your Parents or others who you anticipate will be leaving you something upon death.

·     Special Need Issues if you have a handicapped child

·     You may be needed to be a fiduciary for the Parents; What are your responsibilities, liabilities and personal ethics involved and family harmony

·     If your net worth goes up significantly, should you be looking at forming a trust or amending one you already have; do your wishes for your children change as they grow into their teens and are different; do you want to restrict your children’s access to funds until they are older? Divide it so they receive some at different ages; Who do you want as Trustee if you aren’t available? Are the people named in your will as Guardians still appropriate.

 


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