Choice of Trustee
Dale Tamburro • March 7, 2025

CHOICE OF TRUSTEE

One of the most difficult and important tasks in preparing a trust for an individual is the selection of a trustee or trustees to manage the trust. Proper management of the trust can make a huge difference in the beneficiary's quality of life for years to come, if not for her entire life. Generally, there are three categories of trustees. Family/friends, Professional Trustees and Professionals serving as trustees (i.e... Attorneys and Accountants).


Here are seven issues I have asked them to consider in making their decision:

  1. Temperament. Personalities to avoid as Trustees include emotional, confrontational, and dogmatic. Family and friends might sound good at first but if there is a potential for conflict of interest or excessive emotions you want to weight the value of retaining family harmony.
  2. Cost. Many people fear using a professional trustee -- trust companies, banks, attorneys, accountants -- due to the cost. Professional trustees usually charge between 1.0 and 1.5% of assets under management, the fee decreasing as the trust funds increase. Over time, these costs can add up, but not nearly as much as the cost of bad management. To put these costs in perspective, they are often the same or less as financial advisors or mutual fund companies charge, and they do not take on any of the fiduciary responsibilities of trustees. Alternatively, many attorneys’ fees will be the same as their hourly fees for any client.
  3. Number. In some case, clients are comfortable simply naming their son or daughter as the sole trustee but are nervous about what that might do to their relationship with other family members. Another trustee (co-trustee) would allow them to share decision-making and responsibility (and blame, perhaps), as well as the workload. It would also provide redundancy if one of the trustees was unavailable for any reason. While it makes a lot of sense to have more than one trustee, more than three starts to get cumbersome. While any single trustee can act for the trust in terms of writing checks and directing investments, they must be carrying out the decisions made by all the trustees. Keeping everyone in the loop and making joint decisions all the time can be difficult if too many people are involved.
  4. Stability. Trusts can last a long time. Will the person you appoint be able to provide the necessary attention to the trust for years or decades? Will they be able to keep up with the often-tedious jobs of paying bills, filing tax returns, and preparing accounts? Since we cannot be certain of the answer to this question if when appointing an institution -- banks get bought and sold, sometimes with ill effect on their trust departments -- the trust must include a mechanism for changing trustees.
  5. Financial acumen. The trustee will need to manage trust investments and spending, taking into consideration the needs and interests of both current and future beneficiaries. Trying to balance their current and future needs can be difficult. They may have $1 million in trust, which seems like a lot of money (perhaps not what it used to be), but to make sure that the fund keeps growing with inflation, they need to limit their trust withdrawals to $30,000 to $40,000 a year. This may seem incongruous with so much money invested, but otherwise the buying power of the trust will diminish and ultimately the trust could fall into a "death spiral" as the beneficiary must dip into larger and larger amounts of trust principal to make ends meet.
  6. Organization. In addition to all of the factors mentioned above, at least one of the trustees needs to be very well organized in order to meet all of the trustee responsibilities -- making distributions, providing account statements to beneficiaries, reviewing investments, filing timely tax returns. 
  7. Personal touch. While cost is one reason many clients avoid using professional trustees, another is fear of working with an institution rather than an individual who personally knows the beneficiaries' situations and needs. This can be especially off-putting if the institution has experienced significant turnover in personnel. We've had cases where a parent chose a local banker to serve as trustee only to have that bank bought by a statewide bank which was bought by a regional bank which, ultimately, was bought by a national bank. In the end, the children were dealing with trust officers in another state. This is another reason it's important for all trusts to have a mechanism for changing trustees.


As you can see, neither the choice of trustee nor the chosen person's decision to accept the appointment, should be taken lightly. Each client’s decision will be made based on his unique situation, including the available family members and friends, the likely longevity of the trust, the amount of assets under management, and other factors. We find that the combination of a professional trustee who can take care of the administrative side of the trustee's role and a family member who can bring the personal touch often works best. In a practical sense, the professional trustees are more often and attorney because many of the institutionalized trusteed are either cost prohibited or decline to serve because the trust assets are too small.


Professional Trustees

For large sized trusts (commonly of $1.5 Million in non-real estate holdings), due to the complications of the trustee's role, we strongly urge clients to consider professional trustees such as trust companies, and banks. They are equipped to handle the investment, accounting and tax sides of trust operations and can do so with little risk or difficulty. They should be better equipped to fend off inappropriate requests for distributions and to deal with conflicts of interest. On the other hand, many professional trustees are ill-equipped to deal with the issues presented by beneficiaries with special needs, whether they be eligibility for public benefits or responding to sometimes frequent requests for distributions for unusual purposes. They may be more comfortable simply managing trust assets. Anyone selecting a professional trustee must ask about the prospective trustee's experience with special needs trusts and their methods for responding to these questions. 

When a large institution is serving as trustee, an inexperienced trust officer may be assigned to the account. He may have little experience dealing with special needs issues. And the person assigned may change over time as employees come and go and, in the case of many banks, as the identity of the bank itself changes from one to another. This can be extremely frustrating for beneficiaries and their families.


Attorneys as Trustees

For trusts of any significant net worth you can consider using a professional trustee such as an attorney. Attorneys don’t charge as much as institutionalized trustees and will handle much smaller trusts. Attorney also may have some history with the family especially the grantors which may aid the attorney in understanding the grantor’s purpose of having the trust. Attorney’s can also serve as a co-trustee with a family member and allow for the separation of work between trustees.


Family Trustees

Choosing family members and friends as trustees also has advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that these are people who know and care about the beneficiary and may be able to you the trust funds to provide the greatest benefit for the person with special needs. Many clients are reluctant to give up control to an unknown third party. A further perceived advantage is that family members normally don't charge for their services. 

The reality, however, is that trustee fees - typically about 1 percent of trust assets per year, with a minimum for smaller trusts - is very reasonable given the services provided. The risk that a family member trustee will make mistakes or not be able to follow through on the basic trustee responsibilities of prudent investment and accounting are so great that the trustee fee can simply be seen as reasonably-priced insurance. Even the most skilled and responsible family member with the best of intentions may not be able to follow through on all the trustee details given the press of other matters in her life.

In short, to appoint a family member is both a large compliment and placing a large burden on her shoulders.


Co-Trustees

Clearly, there are problems with both family trustees and professional trustees. One solution which we have used with success in our practice is co-trustees - both a professional and family member trustee working together. This can be the best of both worlds. Everyone can rest easily knowing that the basic trust functions will be carried out by the professional trustee. But the family member trustee will be on the scene to make sure that the trust is used to best serve the beneficiary.


 

So, You've Been Appointed Trustee, Now What?

You have been asked to serve as trustee on the trust of a family member. This is a great honor meaning that the family member trusts your judgment and is willing to put the welfare of the beneficiary or beneficiaries in your hands. However, it is also a great responsibility. You need to go into it with your eyes wide open.

  1. Fiduciary Responsibility. As a trustee, you stand in a “fiduciary” role with respect to the beneficiaries of the trust, both the current beneficiaries and any “remaindermen” named to receive trust assets upon the death of those entitled to income or principal                           now. As a fiduciary, you will be held to a very high standard, meaning that you must pay even more attention to the trust investments and disbursements than you would for your own accounts.
  2. May I read the trust? The trust document is your instruction manual. It tells you what you should do with the funds or other property you will be entrusted to manage. Make sure you read it and understand it. Ask the drafting attorney any questions you may have.
  3. The Trust’s Terms. Read the trust itself carefully, both now and when any questions arise. The trust is your road map and you must follow its directions, whether about when and how to distribute income and principal or what reports you need to make to beneficiaries. What are the grantor's goals? Unfortunately, most trusts say little or nothing about their purpose. They give  the trustee considerable discretion about how to spend trust funds with little or no guidance. Often the trusts say that the trustee may distribute principal for the benefit of the surviving spouse or children for their "health, education, maintenance and support." Is this a limitation, meaning you cannot pay for a yacht? Or is it a mandate that you pay to support the surviving spouse even if he could work and it means depleting the funds before they pass to the next generation? How are you to balance the needs of current and future beneficiaries? It is important that you ask the grantor while you can. It may even be useful if she can put her intentions in the form of a letter or memorandum addressed to you.
  4. Investment Standards.  Your investments must be prudent, meaning that you cannot place money in speculative or risky investments. In addition, your investments must take into account the interests of both current and future beneficiaries. For instance, you may have a current beneficiary who is entitled to income from the trust. He or she would be best off in most cases if you invested the trust funds to generate as much income as possible. However, this may be detrimental to the interest of later beneficiaries who would be happiest if you invested for growth. In addition to balancing the interests of the various beneficiaries, you must consider their future financial needs. Does a trust beneficiary anticipate buying a house or going to school? Will she be depending on the trust income for retirement in 15 years? All these questions need to be considered in determining an investment plan for the trust. Only then can you start considering the propriety of individual investments.
  5. Accounting. One of your jobs as trustee is to keep track of all income to, distributions from, and expenditures by the trust. Generally, you must give an account of this information to the beneficiaries on an annual basis, though you need to check the terms of the trust to be sure. In strict trust accounting, you must keep track of and report on principal and income separately.
  6. Taxes. Depending on whether the trust is revocable or irrevocable and whether it is considered a “grantor” trust for tax purposes, the trustee will have to file an annual tax return and may have to pay taxes. In many cases, the trust will act as a pass through with the income being taxed to the beneficiary. In any event, if you keep good records and turn this over to an accountant to prepare, this should not be a big problem.
  7. Delegation.  While you cannot delegate your responsibility as trustee, you can delegate all the functions described above. You can hire financial advisors to make investments, accountants to handle taxes and bookkeeping for the trust, and lawyers to advise you on questions of interpretation. With such professional assistance, the job of trustee need not be difficult. However, you still need to communicate with those you hire and make any discretionary decisions, such as when to make distributions of principal from the trust to one or more beneficiaries. 
  8. Distributions.  Where you have discretion on whether or not to make distributions to a beneficiary you need to evaluate his current needs, his future needs, his other sources of income, and your responsibilities to other beneficiaries before making a decision. And all these considerations must be made in light of the size of the trust. Often the most important role of a trustee is the ability to say “no” and set limits on the use of the trust assets. This can be difficult when the need for current assistance is readily apparent.
  9. Fees.  Will I be compensated? Often family members and friends serve as trustees without compensation. However, if the duties are especially demanding it is not inappropriate for them to be paid something. The question then is how much.                                      Professionals generally charge an annual fee 1 percent of assets in the trust or on an hourly basis or some combination. So, the annual fee for a trust holding $1 million would be $10,000. Often, they charge a higher percentage of smaller trusts and a lower percentage of larger trusts. If you are doing all the work for a trust including investments, distributions, and accounting, it would not be inappropriate to charge a similar fee. However, if you are paying others to perform these functions or are acting as co-trustee with a professional trustee, charging this much may be inappropriate. A typical fee in such a case is a quarter of what the professional trustee charges, or .25 percent (often referred to by financial professionals as 25 basis points). In any case, it is important for you to read what the trust says about trustee compensation and discuss the issue with the grantor.


If after asking these questions you feel comfortable serving as trustee, then accept the role. It is an honor to be asked and you will provide a great service to the grantor and beneficiaries. 


This can serve as only an introduction to your duties and responsibilities as trustee.
   

Should You Downsize Your Home?

By Dale Tamburro • October 10, 2025
1. Have the kids moved out of the house? One of the top reasons why so many people go big with their house purchases is to fit a growing family. But when the kids go away to school or move out of the house to start their lives, it can leave many bedrooms sitting available – rooms that have to be cleaned, spaces that wind up being heated and cooled with no one in it. If you no longer need a four or five-bedroom home, it may be prudent to downsize to something smaller and cheaper. In fact, you may find that a significant amount of money is going out the door to pay for your kid’s college degree and the home has become a financial burden. Money is often a motivating factor for knowing it is time to downsize your house. 2. Do you want to keep costs down? Expenses are a major reason people downsize their homes. Big houses are expensive to maintain, to insure and costs more in property taxes. Big houses also lead to higher utility bills. With a smaller home, you will save money on your monthly and yearly costs. If you are close to retirement or you are already retired, these savings can make your retirement funds go much, much further. If your house repairs are being done with short term rather than long term goals it might be time to move on. 3. Are you worn out from taking care of your property? Large houses require a lot of upkeep, as do big yards. Keeping a big home clean and in good working order is a lot of work. Mowing an expansive lawn takes a lot of time, and cutting the grass only gets harder as you get up there in years. Raking up the leaves in the fall is tedious even when you are young and fit. Keeping up with the leaves when you 5/8 are older is tiresome. You may pay for landscaping and cleaning services to take care of all these things, or you may just be resolved to working for hours each week on keeping up your property. Either way, you may be wondering if there is an easier option. A small home takes less effort to keep up, and a townhouse or condo is even less work because the exterior work is handled by the management company. You should get a complete understanding of which housing choice makes the most sense a home or a condo. Have to look at the advantages as well as disadvantages of homes vs. condominiums. If you travel a lot of just don’t have the time necessary to keep up with a home, a condo may be the best move. If on the other hand, you can’t stand the thought of losing control what goes on around you, a home may be the wisest choice. When downsizing these are subjects that should be thought through thoroughly. 4. Do you need to be in a different area? Your life is changing all the time, which means your priorities and the demands of your day will change too. Sometimes downsizing is necessary to accomplish a primary goal. You may have grandchildren you want to be close to, or another family member or loved one that you either want or need to be nearby. You may have obligations to a group or organization that are hard to meet in your current location. Or you might want to be closer to things you know you are going to need in the future, like healthcare. Selling your current home and moving into something smaller is usually the best way to get close to the things that are important to you. Your willingness to go with a smaller property gives you options. 5. Is the design of your home no longer conducive to your present needs? One of biggest problems as you age can be mobility. If your home is designed for multiple floor living It may be time to move, even if the monetary change is marginal, having the one floor living, or elevators can be critical. 6. Do you have a lot of equity in your home? If your house is paid off, or if you have a considerable amount of equity in your property, you may be able to sell your home, buy a smaller house in a cheaper area, and still have a sizable amount of cash left over. Depending on where your home is located, the market and how much the home as appreciated in value, you may find that your house is now worth far more than you imagined. You can find a smaller, less expensive home and add a lot to your retirement – or use the money for whatever you need it for. Let’s face it not having the burden of a mortgage feels good as well! Do, however, make sure you are up to speed on capital gains tax laws for real estate. This is one of the best home ownership perks from a financial standpoint, given the fact you can exclude up to $250,000 in profit if single and $500,000 if married. As great as the tax code is, if you live in a large, expensive home with tons of equity, you could have a good size tax bill. 7. Do you want a change of scenery? A big, lovely home can start to feel like an anchor. Sure, the home is impressive, but even the most impressive home can start to drag you down if you are ready to move on to a different area. You may want to live next to the ocean, or in the mountains, in a city or out of one. Many times people want something different, which is perfectly OK. Maybe hot desert air is calling to you, or you want to relax in a small, quiet town. Whatever location you are looking at, chances are if you sell your big home you will have the ability to settle there in a small, modest home. When folks get older in life, they may also find that instead of having one big home they would rather have two smaller properties. Sometimes people don’t want to leave the roots of their hometown, so they will and buy a smaller property in the same location. They will, however, also buy a second smaller place in an area they have vacationed in and simply love. Maybe downsizing sounds appealing to you for this exact reason. Other Options : What if you decide that downsizing your home is not the best move at present, but you need additional funds. Are there any options to get funds while remaining in my home and possibly downsizing later? There sure are! Look at the practical ways to get the equity out of your house. If you are 62 or older, a reverse mortgage is one of the best ways to remain in your house while also having access to your home’s equity. Tips For Downsizing Your Home Once you conclude that a smaller home is in your best interests, you’re going to need some of the best tips for downsizing your home! Here are some pointers for your consideration: Access your current needs – for example, do you need a formal living room in your next home? Look through your current home and look at everything you can get rid of! Do you have a hoarders’ mentality? This is something you need to change when downsizing. Think carefully about the design of what you want in your new smaller home.  Measure your current furniture and see what will fit and what won’t in your new place. If you have oversized furniture, consider getting rid of it. Sell items you know you will not be taking with you. A garage or yard sale is one of the best exercises when moving to a smaller home. Figure out the storage area in your new home. Sometimes people overestimate going from a large to a smaller home in the area they will have. Understand the best ways to pack a home for a less stressful move.

CONTRASTING THE ESTATE AND FINANCIAL PLANNING PRIORITIES TO INDIVIDUALS IN THE 30-50 YEAR OLD GROUP VS 62 AND OLDER GROUP.

By Dale Tamburro • October 10, 2025
FOR SINGLE OR MARRIED PEOPLE WITHOUT CHILDREN · Basic Understanding of Finances, Paying Bills, rearranging debt, attention to credit, start saving money, school loans · How to buy your first home; How to come up with the down payment · Under about 401K/IRA vs Roths; start small but start · When to buy life insurance and what kind · Explain the need for a Health Care Proxy and HIPAA authorization; Discount need of a Will unless married · How is the couple sharing financial responsibilities; individual accounts and joint accounts; buying a home with a non-50/50 contribution · Understand Home Care, Home/Car insurance; Homestead; How to take Title (default of Tenants in Common) FOR MARRIED COUPLES STARTING OR ALREADY STARTED A FAMILY  · You need a Will because of the Guardianship Clause; Guardian of the Person vs Guardian of the Property. Perhaps time for your first Power of Attorney but definitely Will and Health Care Proxy · Life Insurance for Peace of Mind (enough money to get the kids through to adulthood); How much insurance; Term or Whole Life or Both · The Values of a Standby Trust for your children or a combination of your spouse and children · Financial Buckets; short term; long term longer term · Tax Planning; Investments beyond IRAs; should you diversion between pre-tax money and post-tax investments; Balance; Time for a financial advisors that emphasizes investment and growth in contrast to life insurance and such products · Pay attention to your parents; their estate planning; what are your expectations · 529 Plans or similar programs · What happens to your estate plan when you have more children? · Maintain your Estate Plan by periodic reviews with estate planner; If nothing changes, 5 years and as you get over shorter periods; · Review your Estate Plan when changes occur: o More children o Parent’s Disability or Death o Selling and Buying a new home or investment property; o Significant increase in Income or Net Worth o Eventually College planning for children o Look at your Fiduciaries; are they still appropriate · Is there a compelling need to coordinate Your Planning with Planning of your Parents or others who you anticipate will be leaving you something upon death. · Special Need Issues if you have a handicapped child · You may be needed to be a fiduciary for the Parents; What are your responsibilities, liabilities and personal ethics involved and family harmony · If your net worth goes up significantly, should you be looking at forming a trust or amending one you already have; do your wishes for your children change as they grow into their teens and are different; do you want to restrict your children’s access to funds until they are older? Divide it so they receive some at different ages; Who do you want as Trustee if you aren’t available? Are the people named in your will as Guardians still appropriate.