Is Downsizing the Right Choice for You?
Dale Tamburro • October 2, 2024

Common Reasons to Downsize Your Home?


Knowing it is time to downsize your home is a very personal subject! With the size of the average home in the U.S. bigger than ever, many owners are finding themselves in living spaces that are more expansive than they want or need. Whatever the reason for buying a bigger home, if you are now thinking of going smaller, you are not alone. As life goes on and your needs change, finding a less demanding home can be ideal. When you're considering downsizing to a smaller home, a condominium, over 55 community or an assisted living community,  the questions below will help make the decision easier. Does downsizing your home make sense right now? Downsizing is a question only you can answer.



1.    Have the kids moved out of the house?

One of the top reasons why so many people go big with their house purchases is to fit a growing family. But when the kids go away to school or move out of the house to start their lives, it can leave many bedrooms sitting available – rooms that have to be cleaned, spaces that wind up being heated and cooled with no one in it. If you no longer need a four or five-bedroom home, it may be prudent to downsize to something smaller and cheaper. In fact, you may find that a significant amount of money is going out the door to pay for your kid’s college degree and the home has become a financial burden. Money is often a motivating factor for knowing it is time to downsize your house.


2.    Do you want to keep costs down?

Expenses are a major reason people downsize their homes. Big houses are expensive to maintain, to insure and costs more in property taxes. Big houses also lead to higher utility bills. With a smaller home, you will save money on your monthly and yearly costs. If you are close to retirement or you are already retired, these savings can make your retirement funds go much, much further. If your house repairs are being done with short term rather than long term goals it might be time to move on.


3. Are you worn out from taking care of your property?

Large houses require a lot of upkeep, as do big yards. Keeping a big home clean and in good working order is a lot of work. Mowing an expansive lawn takes a lot of time, and cutting the grass only gets harder as you get up there in years. Raking up the leaves in the fall is tedious even when you are young and fit. Keeping up with the leaves when you 5/8 are older is tiresome. You may pay for landscaping and cleaning services to take care of all these things, or you may just be resolved to working for hours each week on keeping up your property. Either way, you may be wondering if there is an easier option. A small home takes less effort to keep up, and a townhouse or condo is even less work because the exterior work is handled by the management company. You should get a complete understanding of which housing choice makes the most sense a home or a condo. Have to look at the advantages as well as disadvantages of homes vs. condominiums. If you travel a lot of just don’t have the time necessary to keep up with a home, a condo may be the best move. If on the other hand, you can’t stand the thought of losing control what goes on around you, a home may be the wisest choice. When downsizing these are subjects that should be thought through thoroughly.


4. Do you need to be in a different area?

Your life is changing all the time, which means your priorities and the demands of your day will change too. Sometimes downsizing is necessary to accomplish a primary goal. You may have grandchildren you want to be close to, or another family member or loved one that you either want or need to be nearby. You may have obligations to a group or organization that are hard to meet in your current location. Or you might want to be closer to things you know you are going to need in the future, like healthcare. Selling your current home and moving into something smaller is usually the best way to get close to the things that are important to you. Your willingness to go with a smaller property gives you options.


5. Is the design of your home no longer conducive to your present needs?

One of biggest problems as you age can be mobility. If your home is designed for multiple floor living It may be time to move, even if the monetary change is marginal, having the one floor living, or elevators can be critical.


6.    Do you have a lot of equity in your home?

If your house is paid off, or if you have a considerable amount of equity in your property, you may be able to sell your home, buy a smaller house in a cheaper area, and still have a sizable amount of cash left over. Depending on where your home is located, the market and how much the home as appreciated in value, you may find that your house is now worth far more than you imagined. You can find a smaller, less expensive home and add a lot to your retirement – or use the money for whatever you need it for. Let’s face it not having the burden of a mortgage feels good as well! Do, however, make sure you are up to speed on capital gains tax laws for real estate. This is one of the best home ownership perks from a financial standpoint, given the fact you can exclude up to $250,000 in profit if single and $500,000 if married. As great as the tax code is, if you live in a large, expensive home with tons of equity, you could have a good size tax bill.


7.      Do you want a change of scenery?

A big, lovely home can start to feel like an anchor. Sure, the home is impressive, but even the most impressive home can start to drag you down if you are ready to move on to a different area. You may want to live next to the ocean, or in the mountains, in a city or out of one. Many times, people want something different, which is perfectly OK. Maybe hot desert air is calling to you, or you want to relax in a small, quiet town. Whatever location you are looking at, chances are if you sell your big home you will have the ability to settle there in a small, modest home. When folks get older in life, they may also find that instead of having one big home they would rather have two smaller properties. Sometimes people don’t want to leave the roots of their hometown, so they will and buy a smaller property in the same location. They will, however, also buy a second smaller place in an area they have vacationed in and simply love. Maybe downsizing sounds appealing to you for this exact reason.


If you believe it is time or will be in the near future to downsize what other considerations should be forefront on your mind?


SELLING AND WHERE TO GO/DOWNSIZING

 

Like any person Selling there is basic but crucial information required prior to Selling.

 

·     How much is your home REALLY worth?

·     Are there any liens on the property?

·     Are there title issues that you are not aware of?

·     What are the tax ramifications of Selling?

·     Is hiring an experienced realtor, attorney, accountant, and financial advisor advisable?

·     What are you going to do with years of personal property and who can help you?

·     Once you have identified these items you have a better idea how much money you will have, how long it might take to be ready to sell and then you move forward to: Where do I go?

·     Moving in with the kids? A smaller home? A condominium? Assisted Living? Are you going to Rent?

·     Should I take a mortgage out?

·     How should I own the property? In a Trust? What kind?

·     do you need a formal living room in your next home?

·     Look through your current home and look at everything you can get rid of!

·     Sell items you know you will not be taking with you. A garage or yard sale is one of the best exercises when moving to a smaller home.


  • Buying a Smaller Home pros and cons
  • Renting pros and cons
  • Assisted Living Pros and Cons
  • Buy a Life Estate in your Child’s Home
  • Build an addition and make improvements to your child’s house.
  • Set up Personal Care Contracts to Pay your children to help care for you.
  • Can you live with them?

7 Steps Before Meeting With an Estate Planning Attorney

By Dale Tamburro • September 17, 2026
7 Steps Before Meeting With an Estate Planning Attorney Takeaways You do not need to have every estate planning decision finalized before meeting with an attorney. A basic inventory of your assets can help you avoid overlooking important property or accounts. Identifying potential beneficiaries and an executor can make the conversation with your attorney more productive. Blended families, minor children, beneficiaries with disabilities, and other family circumstances may require special planning. Existing wills, trusts, and beneficiary designations should be reviewed together as part of your overall estate plan. Making a will is easier when you prepare before meeting with an estate planning attorney. You do not need to have every decision finalized, but gathering information about your assets, loved ones, and wishes can help your attorney understand your situation and identify issues that may need special attention. Your attorney can help evaluate your options and decide what type of estate plan is right for you. Here are seven steps to take before a meeting with an estate planning attorney. 1. Make a Basic List of Assets Your assets are everything you own, including: Your home or other real estate Bank and investment accounts Vehicles Valuable personal property, such as jewelry, artwork, collectibles, or family heirlooms Business interests Life insurance Making a list of everything you own can help you in several ways. First, it helps you take stock of your assets and avoid forgetting something you wish to include in your estate plan. Writing down your assets can also help you start to think about the people you may want to inherit your property. 2. Gather Important Documents If possible, gather copies of documents that may help your attorney understand your finances, family situation, and existing estate plan. You may want to bring: Any existing wills, trusts, or amendments Powers of attorney and health care documents Deeds or other records for real estate Recent bank, investment, and retirement account statements Life insurance policies Beneficiary designation forms Business ownership records Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements Divorce decrees or property settlement agreements Information about jointly owned property or accounts Documents relating to a beneficiary with a disability or special needs If you cannot find a document, make a note of the account or property, the institution that holds it, and its approximate value. This information may still help your attorney while you look for supporting records. Bring copies when possible and keep your original documents. Your attorney can tell you which documents are most important for your situation and whether anything else is needed. 3. Identify Your Beneficiaries Before your appointment, make a list of the people and organizations you may want to benefit from your estate plan. This could include: Your spouse or partner Children, stepchildren, grandchildren, or other family members Friends or other people who are important to you Charities, religious organizations, or other nonprofits For each person or organization, think about what you would like them to receive. You might want to leave someone a specific item, such as a piece of jewelry, a vehicle, or a family heirloom. You might also want to leave a specific dollar amount, a percentage of your estate, or the remainer of your property after other gifts have been distributed. Also consider backup plans. For example, who should inherit if a beneficiary dies before you? If you have minor children, should their inheritance be held in a trust until they reach a certain age? If a beneficiary receives government benefits or has difficulty managing money, should their inheritance be handled differently? You do not need to have all these decisions finalized before meeting with your attorney. Jotting down your initial thoughts can help your attorney explain your options and identify issues you may not have considered. 4. Think About Who Should Serve as Your Fiduciary Fiduciaries are the people you name in documents like health care proxies (proxy), power of attorneys (attorney-in-fact or agent), wills (personal representative or executor) and trusts (trustees). This individual should be someone you trust to act responsibly and ethically. You may also want to consider their ability to manage the administrative demands of the role. You also should have a backup in mind in case your first choice won’t or can’t act in the given role. 5. Note Family Circumstances That May Affect Your Plan Before meeting with an estate planning attorney, take note of any family circumstances that could affect your estate plan or how you want to distribute your assets. Important details may include: You have children from a previous relationship or a blended family You are unmarried or have a long-term partner You have minor children and need to consider who you would want to care for them if you and the other parent could no longer do so You have a child or other beneficiary with a disability A beneficiary receives needs-based government benefits You provide financial support for a parent, grandchild, or another dependent You want to leave different amounts or types of property to different family members You are considering leaving someone out of your will You have concerns about a beneficiary’s ability to manage money You own property with someone else or have a family business These circumstances do not necessarily mean that your estate plan will be complicated. However, they may affect whether a simple will is appropriate or whether you should consider additional planning, such as a trust. For example, a beneficiary with a disability who receives needs-based benefits may need an inheritance handled through a special needs trust rather than receiving it directly. 6. Gather Existing Beneficiary Designations Next, review your existing beneficiary designations. These may appear on retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and payable-on-death or transfer-on-death accounts, which often pass directly to the named beneficiaries and may not be controlled by your will. The rules can vary depending on the account and the way it is owned, so bring copies of your designations to your attorney. Through the estate planning process, some people find they want to change or revise their designations on accounts and policies. Others sometimes realize they still need to add a beneficiary. 7. Bring Questions for the Attorney Finally, think about any questions you may have for the attorney. You might want to ask about planning for pets, digital assets , best practices for document storage, or what other estate planning documents you may need. Thinking of questions in advance can help you make the most of your first appointment.

I Inherited a House. What Should I Do Next?

By Dale Tamburro • September 17, 2026
 Takeaways Do not rush into selling, renting, or moving into an inherited house before confirming ownership and financial obligations. Your main options may include moving in, selling the property, renting it, or buying out other heirs. Inherited real estate generally receives a new tax basis tied to its value when the owner died, but the tax result depends on the property and the transaction. Disagreements among siblings, Medicaid concerns, trusts, mortgages, and out-of-state property may require advice from an attorney or tax professional. Inheriting a house can create both financial opportunities and difficult decisions. The property may be a valuable asset, a family home filled with memories, or an expensive responsibility that you do not want to manage. You may be wondering whether to move in, sell the property, rent it out, or share it with other heirs. Before choosing an option, confirm who owns the property, understand the costs, and consider the legal and tax consequences. Start With These Immediate Steps You do not have to decide the property’s long-term future immediately. But you should take steps to protect the house and understand the situation. Confirm Who Owns the Property Review the will, trust, deed, probate filings, and other estate documents. The person named in a will may not automatically have complete authority to sell or transfer the house while the estate is being administered. Ownership may also be affected by joint ownership, a transfer-on-death deed, an irrevocable or revocable turst or state-specific probate rules. Before signing a listing agreement or transferring the property, confirm that the correct person or people have authority to act. Protect and Maintain the House Make sure the property is secure and continues to have appropriate insurance coverage . Insurance agents must be notified of the death of the owner/occupant. If no one is occupying the property, the insurance cost will change. If the insurance agency is not notified you may be denied a later claim. Depending on the circumstances, you may also need to: maintain utilities pay property taxes address urgent repairs protect the house from weather or other damage If the property has a mortgage, home equity loan, or reverse mortgage, contact the loan servicer. Do not assume that you can simply ignore the loan or transfer it to an heir. The estate documents, loan terms, and applicable law may affect what happens next. Gather the Financial Information Collect documents showing: The current mortgage balance and monthly payment Property taxes and insurance costs Homeowners association fees Utility and maintenance expenses Liens or other claims against the property Recent appraisals or assessments Records of major improvements Rental income, if the property was previously rented This information can help you compare the cost of keeping the property with the likely proceeds from selling it. Should You Move Into the Inherited House? Moving into the house may make sense if it is in a location you want, meets your needs, and can be maintained within your budget. Before moving in, consider: Whether the house needs repairs or accessibility modifications The cost of property taxes, insurance, utilities, and maintenance Whether there is a mortgage or other debt Whether you can afford the house over the long term Whether other heirs also have ownership rights Whether moving would affect your work, health care, or family responsibilities If you inherit the property with siblings or other people, moving in does not necessarily give you the right to make all decisions about the house. Co-owners may need to agree about repairs, expenses, use of the property, and whether anyone should pay rent. Put agreements among co-owners in writing. A written agreement can address who may live in the home, which expenses each person will pay, how repairs will be approved, and what happens if someone later wants to sell. Should You Sell the Inherited Property? Selling may be the most practical option when multiple heirs want to divide the asset, the property is expensive to maintain, or no one wants to live nearby. Before listing the house, consider: Its current market value Needed repairs and preparation costs Real estate commissions and closing costs Existing mortgages, liens, and unpaid taxes The timing of the probate or trust administration Whether all owners must sign the sale documents The possible income tax consequences A sale can provide a clean separation among heirs. However, disagreements about the listing price, repairs, timing, or distribution of proceeds can delay the process. An appraisal may help establish a fair value before one heir buys out the others or the property is listed. Should You Rent the Inherited House? Renting the property may create income and allow the family to keep the home as an investment. It also creates ongoing responsibilities. Consider the cost of: Property management Repairs and routine maintenance Insurance and property taxes Vacancies and unpaid rent Tenant screening and legal compliance Accounting and income tax reporting Disagreements among co-owners If several people inherit the house, decide in advance who will manage it, how rental income will be divided, and how large expenses will be approved. A property that produces rental income can still be a poor investment if the owners cannot agree or the maintenance costs are too high. What If You Inherited the House With Siblings? When siblings inherit a house together, the property cannot be physically divided as easily as cash or investments. The heirs generally need to agree on one of several arrangements. Options for Handling a House Inherited With Siblings Option May Work Best When Main Issue One heir buys out the others One person wants to keep the home Agreeing on a fair value and payment terms Sell the property The heirs want to separate their interests Repairs, sale costs, timing, and division of proceeds Rent the property Everyone wants ongoing income Management, expenses, vacancies, and future disagreements Mediate the dispute The heirs disagree but want to avoid court Everyone must participate in good faith If the heirs cannot reach an agreement, a court proceeding may be available in some states to resolve co-ownership disputes. The rules and procedures vary, so consult an attorney in the state where the property is located before taking legal action. What Are the Tax Consequences? The tax consequences depend on a variety of factors, including: the property’s value how it is used when it is sold the applicable state law For federal income tax purposes, the basis of inherited property is generally its fair market value on the date the owner died. If you sell the property for more than your adjusted basis, you may have a taxable gain. If you sell it for less, you may have a loss, although the tax treatment can depend on how the property was used. The Internal Revenue Service (IRS) explains how basis applies to inherited property . The IRS also provides information for executors and administrators about selling or disposing of inherited property in Publication 559 . Keep documents showing the property’s value at the owner’s death. Also hold on to appraisal reports, improvements, selling expenses, and other costs. Ask a tax professional how to determine and document the basis before filing a return or completing a sale. When Should You Get Legal Advice? Consider consulting an attorney before making a major decision if: The property is still going through probate A trust owns the property Multiple heirs disagree about what to do One heir wants to live in the house The property has a mortgage or reverse mortgage The home is located in another state A beneficiary receives Medicaid or other needs-based benefits The property may be subject to estate recovery Someone wants to give or transfer their share to another person There are questions about undue influence, debts, or the validity of the will An elder law or estate planning attorney can help coordinate the property decision with Medicaid planning, trusts, incapacity planning, and the rest of the estate. Learn more about using estate planning to prepare for Medicaid and the difference between elder law and estate planning . Questions to Ask Before Deciding Before moving in, selling, renting, or agreeing to share the property, ask: Who legally owns the property right now? What debts, taxes, insurance, and repairs must be paid? What is the property worth in its current condition? What does each heir want to happen? Can the heirs afford to keep the property? What will happen if one heir changes their mind later? What are the legal and tax consequences of each option? Answering these questions can help the family make a decision based on financial facts rather than pressure or emotion. Make a Decision That Fits Your Circumstances There is no single best choice for every inherited house. Moving in may preserve a family home but create ongoing costs. Selling may provide clarity but require difficult conversations. Renting may produce income but comes with landlord responsibilities. Keeping the property with siblings may work, but only if the owners have a clear agreement. Take time to understand the property and document its value. Communicate with the other heirs and obtain professional advice when the situation is complicated. A thoughtful decision can help protect the value of the inheritance and reduce future conflict.